What is so scary about being friends with your ex I hear you say and how is the truth about it going to get back my ex? Well if you ever thought about or being faced with the issue of them wanting to be friends you must read this, it will save a lot of heartache and miscommunication.
Are you facing any of these questions?
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What do I do when my ex wants to be friends?
What if we are all ready friends?
How do I change the friendship into the real deal again?
Let me first say for a proven long term relationship to work it needs to have both parties trusting each other. The relationship feeds off of it and without it the mistrust will kill it before you know it. Now to get an ex back you will need to rebuild the bridges of trust between the two of you again.
The thing you need to remember is this you can't mislead your ex and expect to win them back. This means that you can't lie to them and yourself into thinking that you are OK with being just friends. By all means you will need to be friendly but you cannot say that you are or want to be friends. You really need to keep it clear in your head as well as theirs, about what you want, NO NEED.
For all the people who are already back to being friends or ones who stayed friends during and after the break up, don't worry you can still get your ex back. The one thing you will need to do is express to them how you really honestly feel and exactly what you want. You will need to continue being friendly towards them and you can hint towards it with flirting to get the message across.
For you seal the deal with your ex and lose the friends title, something needs to happen. This can be through an open and honest conversation, which is great if you two can talk easily. For others it will be through action, as in taking the flirting and playing around to a level beyond the friend's status. Be warned if you do take it to this level without getting any verbal commitment or your ex making the moves it will seem to them that you have taken advantage of them.
Getting your ex understand that can't just be friends is only tip of the iceberg, next thing is to get them to want the same thing. There is plenty of information out there on tips and tricks to winning your ex back but most of these try to dupe your ex into coming back, which is why there is 80% of couples breaking back up only after a couple of months after reuniting.
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